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It is never too late

  Seth Godin, in his Seth's Blog, just wrote a piece about "Those People".  The blog talked about a teacher (or maybe alleged teacher) who wrote off kids whom she believed couldn't be leaders and couldn't do art.  Here's the link:  http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2013/02/those-people.html?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=twitter

  This blog really resonated with me for I think I'm one of those people.  Until middle school, I went to a two room country school with multiple grades per room.  We didn't have art classes, no doubt in large part because the teachers were busy trying to teach the basics to multiple grades of kids.  By the time I went to city schools, I was way, way behind from an art perspective.  My parents, being farmers, had had no art training and thus did not encourage us to create art.  Thus, I grew up believing that I sucked at art.  

  Fortunately, in my 40's I became friends with an artist who had taught art.  She believed that everyone could do art and that finding my artistic side was only a question of experimenting with various mediums until we found one that resonated with me.  My friend was in charge of the multi-generational art project for a national conference so each year she would come up with an idea for her conference art project and I would help her assemble the necessary items and create examples of what the conference attendees could do.  This annual event created the opportunity for me to experiment and to try to create without pressure.  We did things like create paper bowls and decorate them with paint, beads and feathers.  

  Eventually, I drove over to her house one day when she was creating paper collages.  She asked me to join her.  I was having a bad mid-divorce day so I refused, saying, "You know I suck at art."  She insisted.  So I sat down, pulled out a background paper and began.  Immediately I was lost in the Zone.  The Zone is that creative space where time and circumstances go away and you simply create.  When I next looked up, 3 hours had passed.    Because my friend was an artist, she had mats and frames on hand so we matted and framed this piece.  By the end of the afternoon, I had a lovely piece of art that was done, finished and ready to be hung.

  I was hooked.  

  I wasn't one of "those people" any more.   My friend had persisted until she had found my creative spark via a medium I would never have thought of on my own.  

  Since that day, I realized that so often we drum the creative spirit out of children and out of adults.  When folks come into my booth at art fairs and tell me that they are not creative, I always disagree.  I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that they are creative.  They simply have not found their medium nor have they been encourage to try different mediums until one resonates with them.

  The bottom line is that we are all artistic.  We are all creative.  None of us are "those people."  We need teachers, mentors and friends who care enough about us to not categorize us, to not put us in the "those people" category.   I'm with Seth Godin in his sadness and disappointment with this (alleged) teacher.  

  Don't let anyone put you in the "those people" box.


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8 Responses to It is never too late

4/7/13

Patricia,

Thanks! I had my artistic/creative side of me passively/aggressively drummed out of me by my artistic/creative grandmother. In a college summer school program I took an art course, and produced, with help from the professor, a pretty decent oil painting, and discovered "The Zone," and loved that "Zone." Afterwards, returned to my university, and created an oil painting all on my own. Both of these pieces hang in my living room to this day! Naturally, haven't done any painting since . . .

Again, thank you for the support and encouragement.

Victoria Dickinson

It truly is never too late, Victoria. Go for it, honey!!!

Best,

Pat

Good writing about being free. I designed my art life long ago. I taught art for years, in adult ed programs in Denver. I always encouraged, never discouraged.
Too many people think art is nit important. I will see your work at Artists On Santa Fe.
ART ON I say.

oh my gosh.....you are too right!!! As a teacher I have people come up to me all the time and say, "I wish I could that..." When I tell them they CAN, they never believe it. Then I tell them I started in my early 50's and they are surprised and encouraged. We all can create. And it takes all kinds of forms. Thanks for posting this.

Always lovely to meet yet another late bloomer, Elizabeth. Looks like there are a lot of us!

Best to you,

Pat

Bob, I'm with you - ART ON!!!

Pat

While I may not be an artist, I'm an artist's manager, consultant, and I have re-started my business at 61, and I'm better now than when I was 20 years ago. I've matured tremendously, and I believe I'm better than ever!

So, everyone is right, blossoming after 50 isn't unusual, it's getting to be the norm for so many of us. We just had to get free, then we soar!

Well said, Victoria! We're better and smarter than we were when we were young AND we're no longer overwhelmed by the demands of small children and family obligations. We ROCK!

Thanks for your comment!

Pat


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